Helping You Understand Whether Mediation Is Right for You
A MIAMS meeting is designed to give you clear, professional guidance on whether mediation is the right route for your situation. During your appointment, we listen carefully to your circumstances, explain how mediation works and help you understand the potential benefits, including reduced conflict, greater control and a more collaborative approach to resolving family issues.
We also discuss any concerns you may have, ensuring you feel fully informed before making a decision. Our aim is to provide a calm, confidential space where you can explore your options with confidence and gain clarity on the most appropriate way forward for you and your family.

Your Legal Requirements Explained Clearly
Before applying to court for a child-related or family order, attending a MIAMS meeting is usually a legal requirement. We explain this obligation in simple, straightforward terms, helping you understand why the process exists and what it means for your situation. You’ll receive clear guidance on your options, your responsibilities and how mediation could support a more positive outcome.
We take the time to ensure everything is fully understood, without legal jargon or pressure. Our role is to give you clarity, answer your questions and help you feel confident about the next steps, whether that involves mediation or proceeding with a court application.

What to Expect in Your MIAMS Appointment
Your MIAMS appointment is a private, confidential meeting where we take time to understand your situation and explain how mediation could help. You’ll have the opportunity to discuss your concerns, ask questions and talk through any challenges you’re facing. We outline how mediation works, what the sessions involve and the types of issues it can help resolve, from children’s arrangements to financial matters.
During the meeting, we also assess whether mediation is suitable for your circumstances. If it is, we’ll guide you through the next steps. If it isn’t, we can provide the necessary MIAMS certificate should you need to make a court application. Our aim is to give you clarity, reassurance and a clear path forward.
Why Choose Evolve Mediation Service?
Choosing Evolve Mediation Service means working with an experienced, accredited mediator who understands the emotional and practical challenges families face. We provide a calm, neutral space where conversations can happen safely, helping you communicate clearly and make well-informed decisions without added pressure or conflict. Our approach is grounded in fairness, clarity and compassion, ensuring every voice is heard and respected. We take the time to guide you through each stage with professionalism and care, helping you reach practical, workable agreements that support your future and give you confidence moving forward.
Calm, Supportive Mediation Space
A safe environment helping families communicate clearly and resolve issues with reduced conflict.
Trusted Family Mediator
Guiding discussions fairly while ensuring every voice is heard throughout each session.
Clear, Structured Guidance
Providing steady guidance that keeps conversations focused, constructive and directed towards resolution.
Focused on Fair Outcomes
Working impartially to help families reach balanced agreements supporting long-term stability together.
Book Your MIAMS Meeting Today
If you’re considering applying to court or exploring whether mediation could help, booking your MIAMS meeting is the essential first step. We offer a calm, confidential setting where you can discuss your situation, understand your options and gain clear guidance from an accredited professional.
Getting in touch today ensures you can move forward without delay and with the information you need to make informed decisions. We’ll explain the process, answer your questions and help you feel fully prepared for whatever comes next, whether that’s mediation or progressing your application.

Frequently Asked Questions
A MIAMS meeting (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting) is your first required step before applying to court for a child-related or family order. The purpose is to help you understand what mediation is, how it works and whether it could help resolve your situation without the need for court proceedings. During the meeting, your mediator listens to your circumstances, explains your options and assesses whether mediation is suitable. It’s a private, confidential discussion designed to give you clarity before making any formal decisions.
Yes. Evolve Mediation Service provides MIAMS appointments for clients residing throughout Hampshire, including Bournemouth, Southampton, Fareham, Portsmouth and Winchester. We also work with parents throughout Dorset, Wiltshire and further afield online. We’re happy to discuss your options and help you choose the most suitable arrangement for your MIAMS appointment.
At your MIAMS, we will discuss whether mediation is suitable for your situation. If it is, we will contact the other party to invite them to a MIAMS meeting. If you both choose to begin mediation and start working towards practical agreements, we will arrange the first joint mediation meeting. If mediation isn’t appropriate—either due to safety concerns, communication difficulties or specific circumstances—we can provide you with the MIAMS certificate required to proceed with a court application. This certificate is valid for a set period, allowing you the flexibility to decide your next steps. Whatever the outcome, you will leave the meeting with clear guidance and a better understanding of your options.
No, a MIAMS meeting is not the same as mediation. The MIAMS is an initial assessment and information session where you learn about mediation, understand whether it could help and discuss your circumstances confidentially with an accredited mediator. You are not required to sit with the other person during this meeting. Mediation itself is the process that follows, where both parties come together (or use shuttle mediation) to work through issues and try to reach agreements. MIAMS simply helps you decide whether mediation is the right path to take.

