Your Local Mediation Service in Hampshire - Evolve Mediation

At Evolve Mediation Service, we help couples and families find a clearer way forward during separation, divorce or disputes involving children. With decades of experience and a calm, supportive approach, we offer family mediation, divorce mediation, child-arrangements support and MIAMS meetings throughout Hampshire, Bournemouth, Southampton, Fareham, Portsmouth, Winchester and nearby Dorset and Wiltshire.

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Our Services

We offer clear, professional mediation to help you move forward with confidence.

Family Mediation

Family Mediation

Helping families communicate clearly, reduce conflict and reach fair, practical agreements.
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Divorce Mediation

A supportive, structured way to resolve divorce issues and reach fair, workable agreements.
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Child mediation

Child Arrangements

A calm, structured way to agree parenting arrangements that support your child’s wellbeing.
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MIAMS Meetings

A calm, confidential meeting to assess mediation suitability before taking any court action.
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Client Feedback

Here’s what our clients say about their experience with our mediation services.

Family disputes that are resolved through mediation can be cheaper,quicker and according to academic research, less acrimonious than those, which are settled through the courts.

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Family Mediation

I just wanted to say thank you for all your hard work, support, understanding and patience with our mediation sessions. I really appreciate everything you did to help us.I would recommend you to anyone who needs a mediator

FH
Divorce Mediation

I would like to take this opportunity in thanking you for your professional services. It has made both myself and Jane more amicable towards each other so I will not need to return to mediation. Fondest regards.

TR
Divorce Mediation

With Michael’s help, we were able to begin a much calmer discussion about how to separate, the practical issues of who lived where and communicating with the children, and some ground rules in the early stages

LF
Divorce Mediation
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FREE GOVERNMENT VOUCHER

Where there is an issue about child arrangements, the cost of mediation will be covered by a free, non-means-tested government scheme offering a £500 voucher per family towards the cost of mediation, which, though, does not cover the cost of the MIAMS. However, if there is an issue about child arrangements, it also covers financial issues.

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Professional Mediation for Couples and Families

Our mediation service provides a calm, balanced and supportive space for couples and families to discuss the issues that matter most. We help you communicate clearly, explore your options and make informed decisions that work for everyone involved.

With professional guidance and a sensitive approach, we focus on reducing stress, avoiding conflict and keeping conversations constructive. Whether you’re separating, facing difficult decisions about children or needing support with financial arrangements, we’re here to help you move forward with confidence.

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Why Choose Evolve Mediation Service?

Evolve Mediation Service offers a calm, structured and supportive way to resolve family issues without the stress and cost of going to court. With decades of professional experience, we guide couples and families through separation, divorce and child-related discussions with clarity and understanding. Our approach is centred on fairness, clear communication and helping you reach practical agreements that truly work for everyone. We provide a safe, confidential environment where every voice is heard, allowing you to move forward with confidence and a renewed sense of control.

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Accredited Mediation for Couples, Parents and Families

Our accredited mediator offers a clear, structured and professional approach to resolving family issues with minimal conflict. We support couples, parents and wider family members through the challenges of separation, financial decisions and child arrangements, helping you focus on what truly matters. Every session is guided with care, neutrality and a commitment to achieving fair outcomes.

We understand how emotionally difficult these conversations can be, which is why we create a safe and calm environment where everyone feels heard. With expert guidance and a sensitive approach, we help families find practical solutions and a positive way forward.

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Online Mediation Sessions Available

Alongside our in-person appointments, we also offer online mediation sessions for families who prefer a flexible and convenient way to access support. Using secure video platforms, you can attend mediation from home, work or separate locations - ideal for parents no longer living together or those with busy schedules. Online sessions work in exactly the same way as face-to-face mediation, offering a calm, private space to discuss children, finances and separation arrangements with the guidance of a professional mediator.
This option is particularly helpful for separated couples who find it easier to talk with some distance, or for families spread across different areas of the UK. With clear structure, neutral guidance and a focus on solutions, online mediation provides an accessible route to agreement without the need to travel.

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A Private, Quicker and More Affordable Alternative to Court

Mediation offers a confidential and supportive setting where you can resolve family matters without the stress and formality of court proceedings. It allows you to stay in control of the decisions being made, giving you space to discuss finances, separation or child arrangements calmly and constructively.

Because mediation focuses on cooperation rather than confrontation, most families reach agreements far quicker than through the court system. It is also significantly more cost-effective, helping you avoid lengthy legal processes while still achieving clear, fair and practical outcomes that work for everyone involved.

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Guiding You Through Separation, Divorce and Child Arrangements

We understand how overwhelming separation and divorce can feel, especially when important decisions about children and finances need to be made. Our mediation service provides calm, balanced guidance to help you communicate clearly, explore your options and focus on practical solutions that work for everyone.

With professional support and a sensitive approach, we help parents and couples navigate each stage of the process with confidence. From discussing living arrangements and parenting plans to reaching financial agreements, we’re here to guide you through every step and help you move forward with clarity and control.

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Frequently Asked Questions

If you’re new to mediation, it’s natural to have questions about how the process works and what to expect. Below you’ll find clear, helpful answers to some of the most common queries we receive, designed to give you confidence and clarity before getting started.

A mediation session provides a calm and neutral space where both parties can talk through the issues they want to resolve. Your mediator guides the discussion, helping you identify priorities, explore options and work towards practical agreements around finances, separation or child arrangements. Everything is handled with confidentiality, ensuring you feel safe and supported throughout the process. Sessions usually last around 60–90 minutes, and you can take things at a pace that suits you. The aim is always to help you move forward with clarity and mutual understanding.

The length of the process depends on the complexity of your situation and how quickly agreements can be reached. Many families resolve matters within two to four sessions, while more detailed financial or child-arrangement discussions may require additional meetings. Mediation is almost always quicker than going through court proceedings, which can take several months or even years. Our focus is on helping you progress at a pace that feels manageable, while still ensuring you reach clear, well-considered and workable outcomes for everyone involved.

Not necessarily. If being in the same room feels difficult, shuttle mediation is available. This means each of you will sit in separate rooms while your mediator moves between you, helping you work towards agreements without direct face-to-face conversation. This option is particularly useful for individuals who feel uncomfortable or anxious about meeting directly. Shuttle mediation is offered across our Hampshire venues, including locations in Bournemouth and Southampton, so you can choose the setting that feels most comfortable for your situation.

At your MIAMS, we will discuss whether mediation is suitable for your situation. If it is, we will contact the other party to invite them to a MIAMS meeting. If you both choose to begin mediation and start working towards practical agreements, we will arrange the first joint mediation meeting. If mediation isn’t appropriate—either due to safety concerns, communication difficulties or specific circumstances—we can provide you with the MIAMS certificate required to proceed with a court application. This certificate is valid for a set period, allowing you the flexibility to decide your next steps. Whatever the outcome, you will leave the meeting with clear guidance and a better understanding of your options.

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